How I want to be remembered.

The question of how one wants to be remembered had always seemed to me to be a frivolous one. I should not care, I could not care about that once I am dead. But, it occurred to me that those close to me, like my daughter and my partner if they lived longer than I, would likely care about how others spoke of me. If others spoke well of me, those close to me would likely feel good about it. That's worth a consideration.